ummm…this is kind of a wierd question but how does ur poo look like if u have colon cancer???

My wifes got cancer and we are all finding it hard to cope as shes got a limit.?

Hello well were do i start? Met my wife when she was 20 years old ,fell in love instantly.Married 11 years now.We have 5 beautiful children together youngest 5 months and oldest 10 years.Our marraige has been beyond awesome and i’ve enjoy every day of it,even the ups and downs to be honest.Last weekend, it was the first weekend we had alone together in what…10 years?She never had a night out without the kids because she is one of those moms who worry too much when shes not with them ,i thought it was strange for her to want a babysitter to go out and well heres were the story starts!….she told me she had cancer ,its the reason she wanted us to be alone,it was like being shot it the fxckin balls.She is my world this woman she is all i had!..shes really upset and when i see her upset i get upset,i try to stay strong and not cry with her to try and reassure her everythings going to be ok but i don’t know how im going to cope!…Im the first to know she plans to tell family soon but not now.Shes scared i can see shes scared.She has colon cancer and its terminal,doctors said things don’t look great but she would be lucky to have a year or two left,I think its the shock that hurts most becuase at first i thaught ok its cancer she can fight it,but when she said shes dying i cryed yeah i know it isnt manly but i cryed.I am worried about her our five kids,everything.i dont know what to do anymore.I find it hard to make conversation with her,shes planning a will i,im just lost.All i can promise her is i’ll be the best father to our children and ill be with her every step of the way.I feel everything we do together could be the last.I don’t know how she is going to tell family shes so close to them,there almost here every weekend,my little five month old daughter will never remember her,we will never do things we planned.Im trying to see some kinda bright side but there is none.it feels like a clock ticking my wifes only 35 she dosent deserve to die like this no one does. How do i cope what do i do to keep her happy?
sorry bob.
No she was diagnoised with quiet some time but she never told me.What do i go see? i need people to talk to i dont know is it councilors or what?

Vomiting Feces, diaherra, constipation, could this be cancer?

Last thursday i seen the doctor and he ordered a chemical blood screen, and a cholesterol check. I have been having naseau for awhile now. But Friday about 2:30pm i got sick at my stomach. I vomited a few times. I hadnt ate nothing that day. I tried to eat a sandwich and ate one bite. It came back out. About 10:30pm i vomited and and out came what looked like feces. I have been sick ever since. I have been able to hold down food the past few days. But ever so often i get sick again. Tonight i did it again. i called my doctor and they want me to see the doctor first thing in the morning for a CT scan. I have a few questions. first will a blood test show exactly how much hydrocodone i had took? Cause i kept vomitting them back up. 2nd. What is wrong with me? Could it be cancer? Oh and i have times when i have severe diaherra, and then i will be constipated for a few days. Most of the time its diaherra. Colon cancer does run in my family. I just dont know what to do. I am scared i will be put in the hospital, or i wont get my pain meds anymore, which i really need because of the broke hip i have, and the pain i have in my side. Could the pain meds be causing my problems though? Should i stop taking them? I am so scared right now.
Yes it is possible to vomit feces. Ive not only been told this by a doctor, but also a nurse and who ever it was i talked to calling the ER. It is caused by many different things. One is a obstruction of the bowel. I talked to my doctor again tonight and since i am still doing it they want me at the doctors office first thing in the morning for a CT scan. But iam worried cause that could take a few days to get the results back. But today i was told that it could also be cancer causing the obstruction. Or a hole in the intestines. I am just trying to confirm what i was told. I will update this tomorrow after i see the doctor to tell everyone what he says and does. i dont think iam going to be able to sleep tonight. i am terrified.

Why do African American males tend to look bad on the eyes of society?

It just seems as though no matter if AA males have master’s or doctorate degrees, individuals in society tend to “blackballed” AA males. Even with statistics we are leading on mostly everything that is negative (i.e. highest rate of becoming incarcerated, highest rate to develop colon cancer, highest rate to develop hypertension, highest rate to develop diabetes, and the list will go on and on). It even has gotten to the point where when I was in my teens, my parents have to show me how to “speak to the police” and they are college educated. My mom is a nurse practioner and my dad is a mechanical engineer both of whom are African-American.

I didn’t let outside elements affect the person within me, but it is just a question that I happen to realize being from the South.

FYI I also would like to mention that I earned my bachelor’s degree in elementary education and I am currently working towards my master’s degree in elementary administration.

Found a lost Sheltie….never seems to turn out how you hope does it?

As we were turning into our apartment complex a sheltie darted out in front of our car but we didn’t hit her….we kept going but we knew if it was our dog loose we would want someone to pick her up.

So we went back and looked at her tags….the number disconnected but she led us to where she lived….we asked a neighbor if they new her and they did and said they have picked her up and taken her home several times out at the busy main rd.

I thought the dog was in heat but they said she wasn’t but she has Colon Cancer (and she was bleeding) well they were going to call AC (we had called the Humane Society and they couldn’t take her) and offered to take her (they know this dog well) so we left her there and left a note on the owners door (she wasn’t answering) where she was.

We also called AC….since she is terminal atleast she will be able to be put down instead of getting hit in the street (the neighbor says that the woman just lets the dog and unleashed which is a violation of the leash law)

The dog was matted and very skiddish. She looked like she hasn’t had a bath in weeks….

We had hoped that maybe she was a dog that just got loose and had a family that missed her…but as my husband went up to our Apt to get a leash it was quite obvious she had been neglected and then we found neighbors who knew her and we got the whole story.

Needless to say I know we did the right thing but at the same time I wish the situation had been different.

I guess its kind of my gift and my curse….caring so much.

this comes a week after the cat I was trying to save was killed (hit and run)

Well thanks for listening….AC will be out to investigate.

The dog is terminal so its probably for the best.

Thanks for listening
the neighbors are avid animal lovers
the neighbors are avid animal lovers